Accept others flaw like we want others to accept us

 Assalamualaikum and hi everyone.

 i would like to talk about "don't judge the book by its cover". i just meet someone. At first everyone thought he is gay because he kinda soft spoken to everyone included me of course. i started to be friend with him and i asked him "how he becomes like this?" i mean homo/gay. He just laugh and said, he is not both of it. He must be like that. i was damn shocked. 

He continue, he said , "i have no interest in guys or girls..all this while i compliment their looks. i try to fit in with the society because i was ugly back then and only those gay would accept me. Before if the guy or girl is handsome/pretty , i actually envy them because looks will measure the gap in almost everything. i know that you know that , this is true. with look you can succeed without lifting a finger because someone else will do it for you. Being ugly has its perks. i struggled to do almost everything , learn everything".

i just speechless after he said that. Even though not everyone who have the good looks is like that. somehow we as human shouldn't be like that. Everyone have their own beauty. why we have to isolate person just because of looks. we should be shame with ourselves as we have to realize that everything is temporary. even a good looks is given by Allah. so accept others flaw like we want others to accept us. not everything we can judge from appearance.